However, being playfully arrogant is something that everyone can vibe with and laugh along with, which is why it pretty much always works.

and how you can use it to your advantage - rather than to your detriment.

Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone.

There's a decade-old approach toward women and dating called cocky and funny.

It's frequently prescribed as a cure-all for men struggling to do better with women; throw a little cocky and funny at a girl, and she'll turn to putty in your hands.

For those who don’t know, the ” cocky and funny ” approach deals with being humorous and challenging at the verbal level.

Some swear by this approach however, the challenge is that not everyone can be funny.

I’ll explain and give examples in just a second 🙂 My experience has also been that Although there is plenty to say about this combination of push-pull and cocky-funny, I’ll leave that to another article.

My focus here is on the 80/20 principle applied to the push-pull dynamic. What I say here is NOT for absolute newbies, who don’t yet have their fundamentals down (body language, tonality, and basic inner game). A quickie definition of push-pull straight from the pen of Swingcat: We’ll be filling this out as we go along. While you can succeed using almost any combination of push and pull (e.g., 80% push-20% pull, 50% push-50% pull), This applies only if the following also hold: a.

So, I began to experiment with different styles of cocky and funny until I eventually worked out the right way to do it.